Chatting with Jesus
Friday, May 3, 2024
Lord, ever since that ugly apple incident in the Garden of Eden, man tends to follow Adam’s foolishness, relishing in vanity and self-absorption. Narcissism conquered Adam, feeling equal to or better than you. You quickly put him in his place, and subsequently, man continues to suffer the consequences. Despite the fallout from such rebellion, man continues to elevate himself above his level.
Narcissism runs prevalent in many groups, such as celebrities, sports figures, military heroes, even some ministry leaders. And politicians. Oh, yes, definitely politicians. Self-absorbed people are a bore, always talking about themselves, hogging the spotlight to be the center of attention.
The wisest man known in the ancient world, King Solomon, must have grown weary of people wasting his time, trying to impress the king with their vast knowledge. One of his proverbs describes what he was probably thinking when these “enlightened” idiots rambled on and on with their “word salads.”
“Don’t be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil” (Proverbs 3:7 NLT).
Wise people don’t have to tell others they are wise. Their speech, actions, their general manner reveal their wisdom. Narcissists are the opposite, thinking themselves as the smartest, wisest one in the room. We should be grateful to be in their presence.
How did King Solomon deal with these conceited people? He told them their biggest problem was they didn’t have a personal relationship with you, God. Because narcissists believe themselves to be the god of their lives, they leave little to no room for the one true God, who freely gives true wisdom to anyone who asks (James 1:5). To get right with you, they needed to humble themselves before you and acknowledge and make you the Lord of their lives.
Lord, because fallen man has that same sinful nature as Adam, protect us from foolishly setting ourselves up as god of our lives. Using godly wisdom, may we always choose you.
Amen.